Have you ever thought a part of your life is cursed? I have and recently am fighting an area in my life that does seem cursed. Cursed means from the Webster Dictionary "affected by a curse that causes bad things to happen, affected by something bad, and annoying or unpleasant." The place for me is in dating and romance. I have been hurt and rejected here since my teenage years. It all started with having no one to go to Prom with over a four year period of time I asked twenty-five girls to Prom and no one said yes to me.
Which lead me into a great depression, not being worthy, and rejection those giants have seemed to follow me throughout the three dating relationships that I have had each time these three giants would arise trying to kill me! Feeling these emotions and believing the words that were playing in my head made me believe this area is cursed in my life. I have to be careful because it is so easy for me to fall into speaking that death and that hurt in my life.
I was recently doing it and the Holy Spirit said to me "No, Robbie not cursed but blessed." Blessed means from the Webster Dictionary "bringing pleasure, contentment, or good fortune, having a sacred nature: connected with God, very welcome, pleasant, or appreciated, used to make a statement more forceful, holy, and enjoying happiness." Wow!!! Look at the difference but look at what it means to be blessed and I can say when we look at how God created relationships it is to be blessed. Your love and romance life with your spouse or future spouse should consist of all that word is which is blessed! Join me believe your marriage and not just that but every relationship you have in your life from God, yourself, family, friends, and acquaintances.
Let me end with this these giants have been laughing at me and my God saying "and what?" Well, I can say I take a stand like David and say everyone will know that there is a God in Israel on this battlefield of love in my life! Is it difficult? Yes, it is! But every time I say God is good here and it is a blessed part of my life those giants begin to fall and retreat. I do believe they will fall and I will lift up the sword and cut off their heads and raise all three heads and their body armor up. Then I will hang them up just like David did with Goliath's head and body armor then everyone will see that my romance and family life is blessed and it will help others be blessed! It will help others kill their giants as well. So I say start tonight have faith with me that He wants you to be blessed and where cruses have fallen on you or family have faith they are broken and God will restore and give a double blessing that is for you and that double blessing will follow the next generation just like it did for Job and Jonadab! Lord make us like the Heroes of Faith!
